Today I want to talk about the feeling of being supported. I had an unbelievable experience that gave me a new view on feeling supported. It started with a woman who I’ve known for a while who was diagnosed with cancer just over a year ago. When she got the news, she called me to have a discussion about it.
I’d met her during the chapter of my life when COVID deniers seriously accused me of being the chief architect for the Cabal and engineering a big part of COVID. And this woman was one of my accusers. Initially, she attacked me, then I tried to defend myself, then I let it go, and finally I said, “Help me understand you,” and we got to be acquaintances. When she got cancer diagnosis, she called me to talk to me about this. And particularly she wanted to talk about deciding on traditional cancer treatment. I tried to push for it, and she eventually decided against it. Her misbelief about COVID expanded so much that she stopped trusting any traditional doctor or any traditional healthcare system, and she ended up passing away. Maybe she would have passed away anyway, but she passed away without undergoing any cancer treatment.
I’m telling you all about this, not because of that, but because as we kept talking, she told me about something she created. And she basically created this support line. Every day, at from 7 p.m. to 7:10 p.m. for 10 minutes, she asked friends to join a call line in silence to support her. She invited me to join and I joined a few times. You dialed the number at 7 p.m. and you know there’s lots of other people on the line but everybody’s in silence. She asked us to just think about her and wish her well, which I did. I don’t believe that wishing well from a distance helps, but there was this tremendous feeling of support to her, and I could imagine how she was feeling. The calls that I was on were silent. She told me that there were some calls where somebody played a song or some calls when somebody read a poem but, in general, they were silent.
She did this on purpose because she wanted people to be able to continue with their life, just putting their phone on mute and being on the line for that. She could see the number of calls that came in. And I thought, what a wonderful way that is is to feel supported. Of course, having lots of people come in person would have been better, but there is something about taking ten minutes and dedicating them to a person, and being with them virtually or physically, for those moments, in silence. It was a very beautiful process. A beautiful process. Anyway, just something to think about in terms of how we create mechanisms to feel love and support. How do we support other people? I think there’s something very important here that we could all do a bit more of. A 7:00 to 7:10 PM mechanism.
