A very interesting article in the NYT about the practice of writing our own obituaries — and doing this every year (thanks Bronwyn for sending me this). The idea is to reflect and celebrate with this framework of looking back.
https://www.nytimes.com/2024/09/29/opinion/write-your-own-obituary.html
Given my recent experience with the end-of-life Doula course (I just learned that a male Doula is a Doulo), and in general my interest in how to make the last chapter of life better I just did this exercise and wrote my own obituary, and I am highly recommending that you try as well.
Here is what I wrote:
**Dan Ariely (April 29, 1967 – [Date of Passing])**
An often surprised, and always curious traveler, Dan Ariely had a taste for adventure and a thirst for knowledge that was almost endless. He took life in a not-so-serious way and deeply cared for and loved people. His main life lesson was to suggest that we should all take more risks, try more things that we don’t think are good ideas and take life less seriously. He found joy in his research, deep satisfaction in helping others, and resilience in his endless romantic love.
I next asked Chat GPT to write my Obituary, and here is what it came up with:
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**Dan Ariely (April 29, 1967 – [Date of Passing])**
Renowned behavioral economist, author, and indefatigable explorer of the human condition, Dan Ariely passed away at the age of [age at passing]. Born in New York City and raised in Israel, Ariely's endless curiosity about why we behave the way we do propelled him to the forefront of psychology and behavioral economics.
His life was a testament to generosity and an unwavering willingness to help anyone in need. After surviving a severe burn injury as a teenager, he became deeply interested in understanding pain, adaptation, and the complexities of human behavior. This personal journey not only shaped his professional pursuits but also left him with his distinctive half beard—a symbol of resilience and individuality that he wore with his characteristic adventurous and playful spirit.
Ariely's half-beard became a hallmark of his identity, reflecting his openness about his experiences and his commitment to embracing life's imperfections. It was a visual representation of his belief that our unique traits and stories enrich the human tapestry.
As a professor at MIT and later as a Professor of Psychology and Behavioral Economics at Duke University, Ariely captivated students and colleagues alike with his innovative experiments and engaging lectures. He had a unique talent for making complex psychological concepts accessible and relatable, often infusing his teachings with humor and real-world applications.
A prolific writer, Ariely authored several bestselling books, including *"Predictably Irrational," "The Upside of Irrationality,"* and *"The Honest Truth About Dishonesty."* Through his writings, he invited readers on a journey of self-discovery, encouraging them to question their assumptions and explore the hidden forces that shape their decisions.
Beyond academia and writing, Ariely co-founded multiple companies and initiatives aimed at applying behavioral economics to improve everyday life, from financial decision-making to health and well-being. His generous nature and eagerness to help others were evident in his hands-on approach to mentorship and his contributions to various charitable endeavors.
He is survived by his family, friends, colleagues, and the countless individuals whose lives he touched with his wisdom, kindness, and zest for life. Dan Ariely's legacy is one of endless curiosity, generosity, an adventurous spirit, and a distinctive half-beard that reminded us all of the beauty in embracing our true selves.
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